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Go for bike rides, visit galleries, have a brunch alone with a good book—whatever it is that you like doing, go and do that.

Once you realize how great your own company is, and start developing a solid idea of yourself as a single individual, you'll feel more confident going into dating other people.

At the end of a relationship, especially one that wasn't so great, you'll find that you lose yourself somewhat as you either try to make things work, or else go down with the sinking ship.It's probably safe to say that no one is the best version of themselves during a breakup.It's only to be expected, in today's world of 24-hour scat porn and on-demand underpants commercials.The more refined days of yore, when kindergarten teachers still refused to use the F-word in class and there was nothing more erotic than a woman who kept her gloves on, have clearly passed on for good.If you can make that first time back out on the open road with someone you're already comfortable and feel safe with, then you'll might be able to make the transition easier. I'm not entirely sure, being that I'm one half of a smugly-coupled hermit pair, but I've heard that it's true, so you might as well be the one to go out and confirm it for me.

Who knows, you might even meet someone you end up doing on that one-on-one date with...Of course, you probably don't want to jump straight back into the dating game head first (no pun intended), so it's better to just dip your toes in (pun intended, because I am sick and immature, clearly), warm up, and get back into it slowly.Here are six ways to get back into the dating game after you've been in a relationship: Part of the work involved with getting out of a relationship that wasn't working is finding yourself again.When you're really ready to get back into dating with a view to a relationship, a great way to get started is to raid your friends' pantries.Everyone you know has secret single friends in other social circles or at work that are just waiting to be set up with you.When you're in a relationship, you tone down your flirtation a lot, or at least you should if you don't want to get in trouble with your partner.