Furthermore, other than the very obvious reasons, why is a 42-year-old dating a 27-year-old?
Okay, but consider this: are you drawn to him because he is so settled in his life while you are still putting the pieces of yours together? In my twenties, I dated a man who was eleven years my senior and it was great until I realized I was living vicariously through him.
I wanted to be where he was in his life - accomplished, more confident, and all the other things that come with additional years on the planet.
Dear Christine, I started dating a man and we have an amazing connection. I had NEVER considered or imagined I would be drawn to someone so much older. Do I turn away what seems to be my perfect match because of the age gap?
We have endless and effortless conversations about the myriad interests we share, he's hilarious (and he thinks I am too), we share the same values in life, I feel like I can be 100% myself with him. Let me be clear, I'm not drawn to him because he "fathers me." I have a great, solid relationship with my dad and have no issues there.
Dating an older man can be an ego boost since being wanted by someone older makes you feel more mature.
I share this with you because I encourage you to ask yourself if some of his appeal lies in the simple fact that he is older.You are in your late twenties, a time in life when you are just beginning to become sure of who you are and what you want.You are creating your life while he is already in the prime of his.Mariah Carey, 42, has had twins with Nick Cannon–that’s a 10-year age gap. But top of the tree, as ever, is Madonna, 53, who is at least considering a marriage proposal from her 24-year-old boyfriend, Brahim Zaibat.But no one raises an eyebrow at a 29-year age gap any more. There’s on television and dating sites like Cougar Celebrate your union and enjoy each moment you spend together.